can you love someone again after hating them

Until the time arrived for him to choose between two different jobs, one in his country and one in the country where I live. She got drunk and more out of control than Ive ever seen her. He still puts a smile on face and makes me laugh. My husbands heart is with someone else. Without more details on your situation, this is all I can say. She name them like her baby needs stuff. And though I am trying to be nice to her and show her changes I still dont feel her receptiveness. I told him I didnt want him talking to her and he stopped. I think introspection for all 3 of you (not that you care about or want to help your first gf) is needed. I started drinking way too much. In a weird way I am hoping this will bring is closer. He broke up with me while he was overwhelmed trying to take care of me. He claims it is just an intense friendship. It doesnt matter if that is true. Shes kissed me and all a couple of times and I heard if I act like I dont care shell come back. I know I have to move on though. I yelled at him. I must sound like a broken record on this blog, but I would suggest counseling to help you truly love yourself and feel connected to yourself so that you are not going to develop feelings so easily for the wrong person. I dont think you really, really know who he is deep down and I dont think he does, either. Is he more planful, thinking ahead to the outcomes of his actions? I have been with my bf for 3 years and next week is our engagement, however, its been week since he told me that he does not have any feelings for me. 7 years i found myself heartbroken with 3 kids. Help. We hardly ever see it coming. We now live in 2 different states, we chat online, skype and spend at least once a week on the phone for about 3-4 hours. If your career really is more important, youll only hurt her again. just prove to her that u love her. And that draws you together. Any fool can fight back. I heard him sob once as he walked down the hall. Since then, they no longer talk. But u was no longer interested in the deal. The one person with whom it works proves to you, in the course of being together, that he or she really gets who you are. but i really dont want to loose him dr. i would do anything to make him smile. His mother is a big issue here, and wont let him move past his exwife. Any advice would be amazing. The last few months we have come very close to breaking up. She will not believe me. Not because of him, his personality or anything. Im not sure if you see these comments anymore, but Id like advice as the one who hurt the man I love. It is not only confusing but doesnt make you look very good to the second one, let alone the original boyfriend. I fear that well be several days without talking because he doesnt have this need to talk that I do and also maybe he feels that if he contacts me hes giving me a hope that hes not sure of. Over the years he has struggled with excessive alcohol abuse and usually I am able to bring it up and he notices its getting worse and fixes it himself. I realize that Im making this about me by even asking this question, and that I need to make this about him right nowwhat he needs to try and heal. But now i have to suffer. I am offering a course in this very subject, however, and you might want to inquire further. I told him to maybe give it a year before we actually start dating again though I will be here for him to talk to but I suggested him to write me letters instead of calling me. I told her how sorry I was that I left her without any discussion of me staying or continuing a long distance relationship and told her that I would move back to be with her, but she refused saying that the way that I departed hurt her enough that she could no longer trust me as a partner. Because we are all imperfect here. Mixed messages!! When we do communicate a little its always about the same things: school and work. It has to be about you, not him/her, this time around. She is the one doing all that. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. So I just feel stuck! At this point I was still unaware of the abandonment issues. But you would like to change him. It isnt right for me to be this way. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and we have four children ages 8 and under. it seems like he wont be able to get that out of his mind right now. Ive been exercising and eating healthy. It saddened me that I was so beaten down by his anger and I couldnt be supportive or help him. After that, it actually takes work. One thing I noticed is that you seem to know you are wrong. I consider her toxic. Q: Is he a loving and devoted father to the kids? I have been married for 12 years next week. We havent talked since mid-January. Today we have talked about the situation and I understand that I totally humiliated him in front of our friends plus numerous other people because we were at a club where he is a member. But ill also feel guilty if I still cant fix whatever im feeling. Ps; he has said he wants a year apart. Before I lose him. What can I do? how do i put my efort into this when he still doing thinbgs that shattered the little trust and respect i had gained?? He took me at my word and is full of bitterness. but he isnt doing that on his own like texting me or calling me. He is someone from my past that I used to fool around with. Dont for a minute think that these changes are just a matter of attitude. There is a reason why you were hurt and cold all this time. Not worth it. After I hurt him too many times, he put up a wall. My husband also said he just . Since then there have been a couple of other moments where I have got drunk and hurt him. She was a blogger who wrote about food and parenting. Few days ago i was at the Mall when she called. Few mins later she showed up at my house. So the therapist he goes to cannot be someone who just listens and says, Uh-hun. Be sure whoever you go to is specifically trained as a marriage therapist, because that is its own field. She was not home either bur I told get I was there. But, she wont believe me now. One morning while waiting for the school bus to come and pick up my daughter, she came outside swearing at me that we clearly missed the bus and told me to start acting like an adult. I kept saying I would but I just couldnt it didnt feel right it was like I needed him to prove he loved me and wouldnt leave but at the time I didnt realize that and even if I did I wouldnt be able to tell him that. I cry every time I speak to him. Furthermore, the fact that he did NOT go to counseling and also did not divorce his wife (in the beginning) means he was not trying to fix his problem. I am so stupid!! But my questions here are, do you think therapy will help in our situation? If you find yourself arguing often with your partner, you may be in a love-hate relationship. But how is that possible? started to disappear cause of the absence of my "Once you love someone, unless your respect for them is. About six months of this go by I eventually had to end things with her. Over the past 3 years I have relapsed off and on with marijuana. When my wife told me, I was devestated but I knew I wanted to try and fix the relationship. I had a girlfriend the first time I met her and the relationship with my then-girfriend wasnt going anywhere. I go to work, do what I can & come home. Have there been arguments? I eventually grew out of that, or so I thought. I started to get extremely depressed and I have always been an anxious person but it all got worse after feeling like I had made a huge mistake. This is driving me physically and emotionally crazy I dont know what to do for some reason my biggest fear is hurting him even though hes hurt me a million times. When you were in love with him, he was not in love with you. Ever since we had that fall out hes like a changed man. Any advice on how to help her heal and begin to trust me again will be greatly appreciated. It ruined everything. Meaning dating cuz I hurt her but I didnt go with no one like Ive been told she has.and if thats happened I wont be able. You are attracted to and feeling repulsed by the person you just started seeing. And it kept bothering me every day. AND STILL SHE SAYS I DONT GET IT, SHE SAYS IM NOT UNDERSTANDING! Hi TJ Therefore, it would be natural for him to be skeptical of your changes if you havent done this (you dont indicate what you did to work through them). Everywhere I go Im with couples and i can barely handle it and a few times i have ended up crying if I drink. Dated some but nothing serious. My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years now, and weve gone through a lot (my parents disapprove of him and kept us apart.) He therefore was distancing himself emotionally. All purchases are on my bill. I told him of all the things he used to do that made me unhappy (though I was happy sometimes, just not for long periods) then ended with the discoveries I made..He was pissed that I went as far as signing into his accounts. I didnt mind at first, but his mom started to tell me that his ex would always be his wife no matter what. I really do love him and I really do want my best friend back but I just dont know what else I can do. He has never lied to me and usually says what he means, but Im lost. If this relationship is important to you, you really need to do what the 12 step people recommend: A fearless moral inventory. So I sptopped answering her calls. After she had enough of my pushing, she finally pushed me away completely and is going to stay with her lover. At the time he stated i was his princess and told his mom about me.blah blah blah. (Incidentally, if you dont see this, you do have to plumb the depths to find it. It seems that an emotion with a high arousal effect can quickly turn from positive (love) to negative (hate). I was stunned and heart broken. Blame? Do I refrain from any words like I love you, I miss you or is ok to give her little words to let her know Im here and thinking of her so much with sorrow, regret and understanding. So, here is my honest opinion: A. 1. When you fall into this trap again, remind yourself, I am a good person! How do I make him fall back in love? I was honestly in a bad place in my life.. Anything but this constant pain I feel. please help me, Hi mel, Im lost and Im dying inside. So I brought it up a couple of days ago, and he broke up with me because he said he couldnt trust me. Please contact me. When she came back she began talking about me staying behind to see through the short sale on our home and eventually joining her up north. I knew the guy from working with my ex. That is a huge change in life. Soon after that, she broke down, genuinely apologized and begged for forgiveness. Also, I applaud you for wanting to give a stable home to his children. And maybe, just maybe, theyll come around and run right back home and into your arms. She texted after, that she was sorry for being rude and mean that she had her hopes up for me attending and didnt want to be let down. Now all I have left is regret and a life without him in it. 15 First Date Ideas Even then, while we were in public, I didnt really like showing my love for her in front of other people, especially my family and friends (I used to though). We had no responsibility, no bills.nothing but each other. No one can live a life without them. I call her back and tell her we will be fine, and to get some rest and that I want to be with her. After she read the text from my ex and found that I had turned down all her advances, she went further to search through other text messages all the way back to a year ago and that was how she discovered the cheating. Just wanted to share my story so far. The reason they say a marriage is work is it is like a garden: it needs rain and nutrition, sun and weeding. Even before he got to know about this I myself knew that I did wrong. I dont want to hurt him. plz tell me how do I get my parents understand this and how can I make that guy believe that I do love him a lot n reallyy wont hurt him aftr . It took him a few days to apologise to me, but when he did, he came to me genuinely upset, crying and telling me how stupid he had been, I should have been his girlfriend all along, it had taken losing me to realise he was in love with me, all I wanted to hear. It is not at all about moving forward. Actually, your bf has to take a good look backward. He still was there when i needed him and vice versa. This, I am guessing, is the it that this woman thinks you are not getting. I work with my ex and he did exactly this to me. I loved him, just couldnt deal with the ex and the mom, tried telling him over and over that this was causing problems, he couldnt understand, kept saying he isnt interested in her. The problem is that Ive been so hurt so manyttimes that now Im discouraged of trying one more time. I wonder if he can ever fall in love with me again. Next click where it says visit my website right under my picture. He was really into me and we said we would marry then he had to leave the country. But I do not want him to touch me period. He was so patient with me the past year. New years eve was the worst I cried through the ball drop, he said it was my own fault I was upset, and then he finally admitted that his therapist suggest we spend time apart. But how do I reach him? And I asked him does he know her he said no . Hes been in and out of rehabs for the past three months three days five days 10 days his last one was 22 days and he was feeling good at all excited to be continuing his recovery at another facility. I dont want to have it end and then face the same thing that he did Because i doubt hed get back together a 3rd time because he is a sensitive guy and doesnt want either of us to hurt again. It feels good to let them know you care and love them, but it will do the complete opposite and push them away. It was a disaster. She knew the situation between us and I had my suspicions, but when i asked either of them, i was told to stop being paranoid. Every emotion was real. Our arguments grew worse. I had a great opportunity with a woman who I connected with deeply. We inspired eachother in our creative endeavors. It was her friend. I know that I will never stop loving her and in my mind, love is absolute. Dated very little until me. Within 4 years of arrival I caught my husband sitting in a parked car, kissing a 15 year-old neighbor whose family we had befriended. When you feel guilty for hurting someone you love, holding in those feelings makes it worse. Regardless he needs help, I know that and He knows that. Any advice on what I should do? Being disrespectful is not putting on the table what is bothering you. There are many of us in similar situations and were cheering for you. I was to blame for his misery and we started fighting so much. to move forward. This can be romantic and slightly awkward, but thats what makes it fun, too, because you get the chance to laugh at your mistakes or hers without fear of judgment (or so she thinks). He didnt, but while we were dating, I found out he was on tinder 3 times. When we hate someone, we are more likely to wish they would suffer or at least change who they are. Her, i resprct show that i love her but idk what rlse to do !! Some are really painful. I was the only person who truly loved and cared for her. I said if its that hopeless why doesnt she say her finally good bye to me. It is not GOOD, but it is normal. And while she was away. You are working on all of it. Were both very honest with each other, I know he loves me, Ive never questioned that. I stayed with her because I love her more than words can express and wanted to show her this was going to be different. Remember, this all started because HE cheated on you. I am utterly devastated. Add to that financial difficulties, job changes, and medical issues and the stress on our marriage just compiled. So along with medications and spinal surgery he has resorted back to using pot. I need help. He invited our children. I didnt mind buying stuff she needs to get done. Neither could I. It was never his fault at all. so for her to say a matter of hours later its over came completely out of the blue! He fills the void and gives her validation through his compliments. My final rejection of his efforts to start again are a step to far. He thinks that constitutes me cheating which I have never done nor would ever do to anyone. After reading this and speaking with my therapist and sponsor, I know that I need to give it time and be loving and kind no matter what, but I have no felt this distant from her, ever. Dont let yourself follow their bunny trails. hes a businessman and his business is demanding him too much, we only communicate over the phone and chat on social networks. Increasingly, empirical research has been carried out on the relationship between love and hate. When this continues, the commonalities arent so apparent. Since im not coming back if he doesnt. She wants to speak with somebody like a family counselor. Not in rude way but in a tune that my question was irrelevant. Please help me on what to do. Looking back on it now I can see how we both failed to nurture and care for our marriage. I was never unfaithful. I have no one to talk to, and I had to let it out. One of the keys to earning trust back is patient giving. That means being patient and not expecting the response you want, but giving, giving, giving. I apologize for the lengthy post. It hurts like hell, I doubt I will love like that again. Cater to him and perhaps that will show him that you are not selfish after all. Heres the thing: You actually dont know who your husband IS and neither does he. He screamed so hard she screamed in terror (at 2 mos when she just got home). But during the time I dated my ex. He is nearly 13 years older than me. I would ask him to come along to some of the events. He said the normalcy of our relationship after this all happened allowed resentment to grow and grow over time, especially during the holidays when I was acting like everything was well and good. And around the time he was sexting, my grandfather was in the hospital and he died. And in turn he has lost all trust and respect for me. Hi Helen, 5 months later he texted me and I decided to talk to him again and slowly we began to rebuild what we had and finally are in a relationship now. He cares about me but I have pushed him away so many times that the love is gone. What has been missing in your relationship that got your husband looking the other way? Doctors cannot treat their families and neither can lawyers, so you cant convince me that you, alone, helped him conquer his demons. Once I got into a huge fight with my parents and they even threatened to throw me out thats when I told him to come and pick me up because I was going to be kicked out anyways.. I found out two days ago that my girlfriend has cheated on me for a week for her coworker. It looks to me like she felt YOU didnt care about her. Finally, 7 weeks ago, after a somewhat benign comment from me about why things werent like they used to be, he snapped. Hi Melanie, I have been dating this guy for a little over 3 and half years and we got off to a rocky start a few months into our relationship when my ex decided all of a sudden after not speaking to me for 6 months just had to be back in my life and showed up at my house trying to talkI made a point to be sure to tell the current bf because I didnt want to lie to him, well because I was very open with him about my past relationships he was not to thrilled and since has had some major trust issues. I love him very much and the thought of the possibility of losing him is killing me. As such, he will see the difference. She lied down straight in my bed. May I suggest you go to a couples therapist so as to (a) help him understand you and (b) develop the strength to gently point out to his mom that your relationship comes first. since hurting the one I loved so deeply, so much, she has chosen to never want contact and I granted her that peace she asked for. Do you have any advice? Now we're married.". We have been intermittently going to therapy since then, we spent Christmas together, etc. I look after the kids and help give her the time she needs to study. Can i pleasr get sime advice on how can i bring back my sons mothers feelings back so she can love me the way i do, i want us to stay together as a family, but apperently she had strong feelings for another man, what can i do to win her back, i am trying my all, i changed all my ways for. Please give me some advice. I feel guilty. So you have allowed one person into your inner world, in the course of being together, and each step of the way you felt understood. Not searching for love but I fell for someone at my work place I kissed him a few times but no more but I told my husband I was leaving him that it wasnt because of the other guy . So I begin to trust him again but still in the back of my mind is the past and I NEVER let my guard down now, and then I caught him slipping while he was out of town, about 2 years ago. What can I do to atleast make him give us a chance at this? Or keep trying ? I just wanted to let you know you have support and I hope things are getting better for you. I can guarantee you shes gonna call soon and her calls makes no meaning to me anymore. The plan was for it to be a purely physical thing with no emotion. hie am a 25 years old woman I have been in a relationship with a man for 30months. My suspicions were confirmed when one of her friends told me they had been sleeping together all along. I told her that was not true and I will make changes to that immediately. My ex doesnt. I pledged my love, life & faith to this man. We laughed and danced and celebrated with friends. Show him that you mean what you say and say what you mean. I broke down and told her that I was tired of blaming everyone and everything on my behavior. And I do believe from your description that he is also insecure. What If the one who falls in love realizes after marriage that who they fell in love with is not real, aka, a passive aggressive narcissist? That is what I mean by not being needy and dependent. I just need to get that back. Ever since then I put up a wall and guarded my heart. What do you think I should do? It reminds you that you are, indeed, a good person so you should not blame yourself for helping her, and 2. He does have trouble getting an erection sometimes, and he later admitted that was why he had done it. Sometimes we need an outsider to nail whats going on. I dont know if I can or should attempt to work on this. Craig you have no idea how i feel everyday i just want thibgs to be the way They used to be. Neglect. That is exactly what young people do. Do you think my husband is really in love with his co worker like he says meaning theres just no chance of our marriage ever getting better and us not getting divorced. He gave a dry hi not even a kiss or hug. I want to give get as much of the world as I can and give her a life worth living. I tried to tell him but now he says our break up has nothing to do with me. I said some pretty bad stuff that in my heart I really dont mean it. I explain to the officer when I had called and explained him what hes been going through the last few months he also has been diagnosed with bipolar psychotic, high anxiety, PTSD depression and ADHD. Having to take that risk and live with that risk can be overwhelming to the point that our love becomes mixed with the occasional bout of hate. If she is really this fantastic person, I would say to tell her you know exactly why she has pulled away and you dont blame her one bit. How in the world can you get back to opening yourself up to someone who has hurt you? I was happy we back with understanding that sperm donor is no one. Trust is easy to break, but difficult to build back up. Sadly that means we dont know as much about the other as other couples would. He had a rough upbringing and there was no solid male figure in his life to teach him how to really love. It wasnt until recently, after my last attempt to make (and change her to suit my needs) her realize these things, and assuring her that I wanted to work on our marriage, that she told me that she didnt know if it was worth it. Anyone can retaliate. He had sent it 9 months earlier when he was pushing me away. Save it for the right woman. I was once an avid reader & someone who found such peace in hand knitting or in the simple gift of watering our garden & knowing the relief it brought to our plants. So what do I do if I have told my significant other of almost 7 years (2 children together 5 and 2) that I think Im not in love with him anymore but I still love him? I admit I was a terrible person but thats because I had up a wall and was not being my true self. Loving each other and really enjoying each other. Which he liked. My heart is just with her but she was in the wrong place during our separations last year. Why isnt that enough? During our arguments it takes drastic verbal damage for us to stop and realize. She was spending most of her free time with her friends instead of with me. How can i handle this please any one any good advise or DR beb any suggestion is a way to put this relation back again. I dont know what to make of it. I drove her to all her appointments, paid for her lawyers, took her to and from work. Because after all that , I now only realize how much feelings Ive developed for him. He said that Ive lost him completely for good. I have not let go of the good him and thats what I been holding on to I know what he is now and i have so many emotions and I feel like I can save him or should I say my heart tells me to save him and my mind knows he is gone I hate that Im in this situation and my family has cut me off for marrying him and Im ashamed to talk about it to my friends around me but they know heroin is really bad in ky right now and they ask me all time why is he always loaded Im just trying to get mentally unwind from him and I just exploding on the inside. If you loved someone very much would you ever want to watch their self destruction? Being in love the first time just happens. I have verbally abused my girlfriend and destroyed her emotionally, but she still loves me and says that she is confused about what she wants to do with us and mentions that only time will tell. We moved out a year after being married and finally had our own place. I didnt really know what to say at the time but said we can seek out help and offered the support which I always have. My feelings arent there at all. However, since this incident, I e noticed him drinking more, either just with friends or with me in a group. You deserve better and there is better trust me. Its great! Of all things, my biggest fear and worst-case scenario actually was the truth. Thanks for your time in advance & I know that if this goes further we will need therapy TOGETHER. When hes with me I try to see that he wants to be with me but at the same time I just want to go to bed and be left alone. Advance & I know that and he did exactly this to me here are, indeed a! 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